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Back last summer I wrote to you, begging for parenting advice, concerning our decision to send Kennedy to a private preschool a couple of days a week. A recent post about the same topic (sort of) from my friend Megan over at Sorta Crunchy got me thinking about our decision, the outcome, and what we were going to do this coming fall. I thought an update...and another call for advice....was in order.
Thinking back on our concerns last summer, each of them either hasn't been as issue or has been replaced with something new, which, I think, is story of our lives for the next, oh, forever. Here is a run down of the concerns I had last summer and where we stand with each of them:
Potty Training: This one has taken care of itself. While you all know about the issues we have from time to time at home ( has gotten soooo much better in recent weeks), we have NEVER (knocking on wood) had an issue with this at school. Not once. Whew!
Nap time: This is one we still struggle with. They don't nap at KJ's school, which is totally fine. She doesn't always need one, but, more often that not, she falls asleep for a short cat nap at some point between getting home from school and dinner. Unfortunately, this results in a very cranky girl when she wakes up. We are torn between a very cranky girl waking up and a very cranky girl who is overly tired. We've learned to live with this for two reasons. The first is I'm not super excited about giving up nap time completely before Baby Brother Cole gets here. I think I'll need it for momma's sanity this summer. The second is that when we make the transition to public school, they still nap or have "quiet time" in the afternoons. So I'm not too worried about preparing her for life without quiet time.
Social Interaction: This has been as great as I expected it to be, but comes with it's own set of issues. She is a very social girl and we have had discussions about when to talk and when to be quiet more than a handful of times. You can tell that she is a young three in her class with this issue. Her maturity to be quiet when the teacher is talking just isn't there, yet. I recently taught her how to pinch her lips shut with her fingers when she is told to be quiet and the report from school yesterday was that she sat there looking like a duck for much of the day. On the flip side, I'd rather have this problem than an extremely shy child. Of course, if you know Dustin and I....we are going to have a little social butterfly. Our kids are just going to be wired that way genetically.
Mommy Guilt: Yep. This went out the window within a few minutes of seeing her interaction with her teachers and the kids at school. She loves it! I would feel guilty if I weren't sending her. As for me, the time apart has made me a better mom on the days we are together. I rarely have to take Kennedy to Wal-Mart with me (which we both despise) and we can spend time playing and having fun the three days of the week she is home.
So, now Dustin and I start asking ourselves the next question: What to do next fall? She will be old enough to go to the full day, public prek program, but I think we both agree that none of the three of us are ready for that. So, the question is, what are we ready for? How many days a week is going to fit her perfectly in her current school and what is going to adequately prepare her for full time, public schooling the following year? As my friend Nicci posted last time, I understand that her educational future probably isn't solely balancing on the question of how many days of preschool she attends at the age of 4, but I do think it sets the "mood" for her future learning. So, I'm throwing it back out there to all of you. What is your best advice in regards to schooling?